\u201cI say the Universe always speaks to us first in whispers. It\u2019s that subtle. And if you don\u2019t pay attention to the whisper, it gets louder and louder and louder. Then, it\u2019s like getting thumped upside the head. If you don\u2019t pay attention to that, it\u2019s like getting a brick upside the head. You don\u2019t pay attention to that, the brick wall falls down.\u201d<\/span><\/i> Oprah Winfrey<\/span><\/p>\n

Steve Kramer was enjoying life as a morning radio personality in San Diego. That is, until 2018, when life as he knew it began to change.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The first whisper occurred when his beloved dog passed away in March. Then, one month later, the thump: his wife left him. And later that year, Steve was diagnosed with hyperacusis, a very rare hearing condition where certain frequencies can become intolerable\u2014the brick upside the head.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Steve remembers:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThings that were normal volume sounded way super loud to me and would cause physical pain. Obviously, with me working in audio, it was a real challenge.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/h3>\n

In January 2020, just after the new year, Steve\u2019s brick wall came down when, after five years of hosting his successful morning show, he was let go. Steve recounts:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c<\/span><\/i>So I was sitting there, kind of in the depths of my despair, thinking oh, no\u2026 what am I going to do now? I didn’t have any real skills. I had created a life dependent on sharing my thoughts daily. I talked about pop culture for 15 years! And <\/span><\/i>suddenly, <\/span><\/i>I was in a weird place of questioning what<\/span><\/i>\u2019s<\/span><\/i> next. What would the next chapter <\/span><\/i>of my life be like?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

As Steve contemplated his next steps, he felt like <\/span>\u201cfate was guiding me into a new project.\u201d<\/span><\/i> His network of radio hosts included Jeff Dauler, host of <\/span>The Upside<\/span><\/i> podcast.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI thought about my buddy, Jeff, who was also let go from his radio job six months earlier. <\/span><\/i>Jeff and his wife Callie h<\/span><\/i>ad started th<\/span><\/i>eir <\/span><\/i>podcast, <\/span><\/i>a<\/span><\/i>nd I remembered watching his audience migrate from <\/span><\/i>the <\/span><\/i>radio over to <\/span><\/i>their <\/span><\/i>podcast<\/span><\/i>. <\/span><\/i>I texted him before I made the announcement<\/span><\/i> about being let go and suggested we <\/span><\/i>catch up. <\/span><\/i>I wanted to <\/span><\/i>talk about podcasting and see if <\/span><\/i>it might be something that would work for me.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Steve and Jeff brainstormed ideas for Steve\u2019s podcast, including taking a <\/span>\u201cpersonal inventory.\u201d<\/span><\/i>\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n

\u201c<\/span><\/i>I’m not an expert in anything,\u201d<\/span><\/i> Steve reflects. <\/span>\u201cI don’t have a skill<\/span><\/i> or <\/span><\/i>a hobby. I <\/span><\/i>can\u2019t talk about <\/span><\/i>The Bachelor<\/span>\u2014there\u2019s already <\/span><\/i>50,000 podcasts doing that. I can’t talk about sports. I don’t know anything. I kept asking myself what is different about me. And I specifically remember sitting at my kitchen table <\/span><\/i>when the epiphany came\u2014I <\/span><\/i>could do a podcast with my mom<\/span><\/i>!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Steve has always had a close relationship with his mom, Nancy. During Steve\u2019s divorce process, Nancy sent him a daily inspirational quote for upliftment, and he would in turn post those quotes on his social media.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c<\/span><\/i>I’ve been called a <\/span><\/i>\u2018mama’s boy\u2019<\/span> my entire life.<\/span><\/i> And that\u2019s where t<\/span><\/i>he idea of a <\/span><\/i>\u2018mama’s boy\u2019 <\/span>podcast came from<\/span><\/i>.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Nancy, grounded in spirituality, is a deacon in the Episcopal Church near Atlanta. Steve believed she would have universal appeal with his audience.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cNow the problem was that my mom had no background in <\/span><\/i>broadcasting<\/span><\/i>. She had no public speaking<\/span><\/i> skills<\/span><\/i>. She had no microphone or any idea how to do a show or podcast. So when I called her in late January, I was like, <\/span><\/i>\u2018Mom, go with me here. If I wanted to start a podcast with you, would you be interested in doing it?<\/span>\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Nancy\u2019s reply? <\/span>\u201cYes! What does that mean?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201c<\/span><\/i>I <\/span><\/i>had <\/span><\/i>retired, and COVID-19 was spreading,\u201d <\/span><\/i>Nancy says<\/span>. \u201cSo I had lots of time. I figured why not learn something new<\/span><\/i> that allowed me to spend more time with my son?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/h3>\n

And that\u2019s how <\/span>Certified Mama\u2019s Boy<\/span><\/i> was born.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Within one month, Steve and Nancy went from zero to launching the podcast. Nancy laughingly says she <\/span>\u201cmanaged to learn new technology w<\/span><\/i>ith a lot of frustration from Kramer<\/span><\/i>!<\/span><\/i> <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThere was lots of facetiming<\/span><\/i>. \u2018Mom, let me see your screen. Okay, plug this in here. <\/span>P<\/span>lug this in there<\/span>. H<\/span>it this<\/span>,<\/span> hit that.\u2019<\/span> There was frustration for sure, but we made it,<\/span><\/i>\u201d<\/span><\/i> Nancy says.<\/span><\/p>\n

And while Steve was modeling his friend Jeff\u2019s podcasting strategy, <\/span>\u201c<\/span><\/i>I wasn’t really ready to invest, because I wasn’t sure <\/span><\/i>the podcast <\/span><\/i>was go<\/span><\/i>ing to<\/span><\/i> work<\/span><\/i>,\u201d<\/span><\/i> he says. <\/span>\u201cSo<\/span><\/i> I<\/span><\/i> decided to go <\/span><\/i>bare bones. I <\/span><\/i>already had a <\/span><\/i>Yeti microphone,<\/span><\/i> and <\/span><\/i>my mom borrowed a microphone from one of her friends for the first two months<\/span><\/i>. T<\/span><\/i>he first episodes were done over Skype. We quickly learned that it was not a lasting solution. Then when we heard about Zencaster, and we decided to hop on there. <\/span><\/i>We were trying to figure it out as we went along. E<\/span><\/i>ven Jeff wasn’t quite sure how to sync up t<\/span><\/i>w<\/span><\/i>o people who live across the country and make that work. <\/span><\/i>Initially, i<\/span><\/i>t was really a mess. The first 20 episodes were for sure<\/span><\/i>!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Undeterred, mom and son persisted, and now, they are over 200 episodes strong. They record five days a week and have started a Facebook group. <\/span>Certified Mama\u2019s Boy<\/span><\/i> quickly gained popularity. In fact, it\u2019s landed the #2 spot on <\/span>Podcast Magazine\u2019s<\/span><\/i> Hot 50 list for seven consecutive months!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWhat we have now\u2014the <\/span><\/i>daily show\u2014wasn\u2019t necessarily the plan, per se.<\/span><\/i> It <\/span><\/i>became a lifesaver for me,<\/span><\/i> as did my <\/span><\/i>audience. <\/span><\/i>I<\/span><\/i>n those<\/span><\/i> dark moments, having an audience come to listen five days a week kept m<\/span><\/i>e on my <\/span><\/i>mental game. It was such a blessing; it continues to be such a blessing<\/span><\/i>. W<\/span><\/i>e have built a community. And I’m so appreciative of every single person in it from all over the country. Th<\/span><\/i>ey\u2019ve <\/span><\/i>either found me from radio shows, or from other podcasts, or through social media. There\u2019s even a woman in the Netherlands who just happened to see a post of mine on Instagram and sought out the podcast from there. We’ve just become this really cool community. I didn’t know I could do that<\/span><\/i>.\u201d<\/span><\/i>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Originally, Steve\u2019s plan was to have his mother provide a quote and be on air for no more than two minutes. Slowly, however, Steve realized that Nancy had become a full-fledged co-host. Nancy remembers:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cSteve said, <\/span><\/i>\u2018<\/span>Just have a quote ready every day.<\/span>\u2019<\/span> Oh, okay, I thought. That’s easy enough. I can bring a quote. Well, it became a little more than that. <\/span><\/i>W<\/span><\/i>e share our lives with people. And wh<\/span><\/i>atever is <\/span><\/i>happening in the moment, that’s what we talk about. Because that’s what life is\u2014it\u2019s lived in the present. And it’s been a lot of fun.<\/span><\/i> Steve <\/span><\/i>has the gift of gab,<\/span><\/i> so <\/span><\/i>I never know from one minute to the next what’s coming up.<\/span><\/i>\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Steve\u2019s father and sister have also been podcast guests and have special episode topics, as well.\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n

\u201c<\/span><\/i>I think <\/span><\/i>many <\/span><\/i>podcasters don’t realize that <\/span><\/i>their audience is <\/span><\/i>genuinely invested in their life,\u201d<\/span><\/i> Steve says. <\/span>\u201cThey want to know more. They want to get a peek at what’s really going on behind the scenes. I’ve shared my life for 15 years<\/span><\/i>, s<\/span><\/i>o some people are pretty invested with what’s going on with me already. <\/span><\/i>I brought my dramatic sister Maggie on the show, <\/span><\/i>and listeners kept asking for more stories about her <\/span><\/i>upcoming <\/span><\/i>wedding<\/span><\/i>, <\/span><\/i>so we kept bringing her back on. And then my dad<\/span><\/i>, <\/span><\/i>nickname<\/span><\/i>d<\/span><\/i> Jimmy Mack<\/span><\/i>, <\/span><\/i>came on to talk about<\/span><\/i> totally random stuff, like getting screwed over by the phone company\u2014old man stuff. <\/span><\/i>The audience <\/span><\/i>loved it<\/span><\/i>, so <\/span><\/i>I turned that into a segment called<\/span><\/i> \u2018W<\/span>hat would Jimmy Mack do<\/span>?\u2019 <\/span>I<\/span><\/i>f people feel like they’re getting screwed over, they can write in, and my dad will give them that<\/span><\/i> \u2018old man advice\u2019<\/span><\/i> for<\/span><\/i> \u2018getting back at the man<\/span>.\u2019\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI think as podcasters, we have to remember that <\/span><\/i>we are living in a time <\/span><\/i>when people <\/span><\/i>have a desire to<\/span><\/i> feel connected to <\/span><\/i>others. <\/span><\/i>And <\/span><\/i>by <\/span><\/i>letting them in, we\u2019re inviting them to <\/span><\/i>grow attached to us, and vice versa.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

In September, Steve was hired by a Baltimore radio station to host the <\/span>Kramer and Jess<\/span><\/i> morning<\/span> show. In order to capitalize on Steve\u2019s existing fans, the station simultaneously launched a podcast, <\/span>Kramer and Jess Uncensored<\/span><\/i> on Radio.com. That show has been voted #3 on the <\/span>Podcast Magazine<\/span><\/i> Hot 50 list for three months in a row, as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Authenticity and warmth are hallmarks of the <\/span>Certified Mama\u2019s Boy<\/span><\/i> podcast, which goes hand in hand with the following inspiration they wanted to share with our readers:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cA<\/span><\/i>lways look on the bright side, no matter how dark times seem. There’s always good <\/span><\/i>in <\/span><\/i>everything\u2014you just have to look for it.<\/span><\/i>\u201d<\/span><\/i> – Nancy<\/span><\/h3>\n

\u201c<\/span><\/i>When I thought my<\/span><\/i> life had <\/span><\/i>collapsed, <\/span><\/i>I experienced the<\/span><\/i> \u2018<\/span>dark night of the soul<\/span>.\u2019<\/span> I went through some of the worst things within just two years. I thought my radio job was the last thing I had that felt normal. <\/span><\/i>W<\/span><\/i>hen that was gone<\/span><\/i>,<\/span><\/i> I was so completely lost. And this podcast has been <\/span><\/i>the <\/span><\/i>bright side of my new life. I think it’s a testament to the medium, and I hope to use my show as a method for telling my story to anybody who feels like they don’t see <\/span><\/i>hope for <\/span><\/i>tomorrow<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/i> They don’t see where the next step is going to be. I didn’t know where my life was going to take me. And I’ve wanted to share <\/span><\/i>my message <\/span><\/i>that no matter what,<\/span><\/i> you <\/span><\/i>have <\/span><\/i>to keep going. <\/span><\/i>Mine has<\/span><\/i> been an interesting journey, but I\u2019ve made it with my mom\u2019s positivity and support.<\/span><\/i>\u201d<\/span><\/i> – Steve<\/span><\/p>\n

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January 2021 Issue<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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